Things to do before the baby arrives part 2

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Choose a pediatrician if you don't already have one. Your obstetrician might double as one but, if she doesn't, ask for recommendations. Also, bone up on what your insurance covers and what it doesn't so you don't end up paying more than you can afford. Your budget is going to be stretched enough as it is! I've had doctors figure out ways to get me care I couldn't afford otherwise-giving me samples of medications, doing a procedure in their office as opposed to an outpatient testing facility, etc. I'm not saying to try to ask your doctor to violate her ethics or get around the law, but many physicians have connections that can save you a lot of time and trouble.

If you're breastfeeding, you might want to learn how to use a breast pump or look into classes or lactation consultants. Many hospitals have them available before and after the birth.

Do what you can to prepare the rest of the family for the new arrival. I'm not talking about the type of mental preparation that starts long before your due date (although this is very important too) so much as making the rest of your household aware of what should and shouldn't be done with and around a baby. Little children might not realize that playing too roughly with a new baby could hurt them. They'll need to know what the baby can and can't eat/wear/play with/etc. Also, sometimes older siblings will resent the baby for taking attention away from them. If they know why the attention is needed, it might make it easier for them to adjust.

Some people will immediately start trying to get their children into the best preschools and kindergartens before the baby even learns to crawl. While I'm not sure this is necessary, it does help to start vetting nannies and day care centers. The process of finding and procuring the right one can take a while.

Let others know what sort of help you need. When I had hip surgery last year, a lot of people from my church did things like bring food, lend or buy various home supplies, drive me places and stay with me so I wouldn't be alone so much. These things were extremely helpful, especially since my family lives eight hours away. In addition to feedings and diaper changes, you're probably going to need someone to run errands, clean house or babysit your other children while you get some much-needed sleep!

Stock up on diapers, wipes, formula etc. You'll always want to have a good supply of these on hand. A lot of people bring these things to baby showers in addition to their gift, so that will help.

I hope I've been able to help. Congrats again on the baby!